It is not death that separates, but the absence of Love. Those we Love exist forever with us. We carry them by how we exist in the world. They made us better. Bucketlist fact: Losing a Love is the hardest part of life. Knowing we hold them within our very self helps us move along.
Celebrate freedom from abusers and enablers, Creamy Pears’ deliciously heals.
With those who show us no Love , the distance becomes vast. It’s fine. What matters is seeing and accepting reality honestly.
Bucketlist true story: Those I grew up with showed some Love and affection during childhood years.
Later they’d prefer to secretly support those who waged wars against me. Not once or twice. Their personal entertainment outweighed that once-upon-a-time love. They embraced my abusers fantasies, took fabrications at face value. Cache-cache. They coated their actions in self-righteousness. Bucketlist Soulhack™: The right thing never involves deception and gossip.
Bucketlist confession: It wasn’t the betrayal that hurt most. It was realizing that people who were “assigned” to Love and protect me never took one moment to ask me, “hey is this true?” Not a call. Not an email. Not a letter. This absence of basic was an answer.
Bucketlist Lifehack™: When people show you who they are and what you mean to them, accept it. Don’t deny the lesson. Grieve as you need. Be grateful to know what is. Cut chords. Move on. Life gets better when abusers and enablers step out. Bucketlist Survivival™: Don’t be afraid, you’re meant for good Love.
Pears are sweet goodness. Bucketlist Healthhack™: Those who hurt you cause stress, increase inflammation and disease. Pears protect your heart against inflammation and disease. They’re crazy delicious too.
Celebrate freedom from abusers and enablers, Creamy Pears’ deliciously heal. Fresh, juicy, chocolatey and coffee-y. The best of lifetime relationships. Anytime. All the time. Only the good stuff.
Bon appétit, Friends.
VIDEO: Creamy Pears by Bucketlist
You Need:
∞ 2 Pears (1 per person)
∞ 2 tbsp Bucketlist Ricotta
∞ 2 tsp Honey
∞ 2 Roasted Cocoa Beans (ground) (OR Chocolate Powder)
∞ 1/4 cup Turkish Coffee (OR Espresso)