It’s amazing how something cheesy is always the right answer to those-days. Bucketlist confession: I just got back from a ceremony with a friend. We had to listen to this guy we knew (way back when) co-opt his Parents’ story. The same Parents who were unworthy of his wedding. The same Parents whose way of life, beliefs and home was too poor to introduce his in-laws to. The same Parents excluded from the very ceremony we were at. The event organizers even put together a video interviewing people about this guy. Who wasn’t interviewed? The Parents whose narrative he was rewriting and selling.
Bucketlist Lifehack™: Don’t be eager to award someone who sells you a story of the immigrant Parents you’ll never hear from. They’ve been silenced before.
Bucketlist recognizes Parenting is a hardening road. Children freely offer criticism, feedback and judgment to Caretakers though ignorant of struggles endured on their behalf. Some are eager to appropriate their Parents’ history whether for college essays, awards, or to justify their privilege with character they just don’t have.
How’s it that privileged-culture doesn’t think to speak to the immigrant-Parents about the narrative they’re buying? Bucketlist Lifehack™: Don’t be eager to award someone who sells you a story of the immigrant Parents you’ll never hear from. Those Parents have been silenced enough.
You? Be kinder to people that raised you. Bucketlist Soulhack™: Stop hijacking their stories. If faking suffering, be careful what you wish.
Cook off absurdity with ease. I had leftover cauliflower, the descendant of wild mustard, and Bucketlist Cheesy Cheese Sauce. I asked the dude who raised me for Papa’s Fresh Roti dough. My Parents beliefs and food shaped the me that I am. Their history’s not mine. Coming from one of those days or people? This Cheesy Cauliflower Stuffed Bread hits the spot quickly. Don’t worry about rewriting your college essay. Creates your own stories in this lifetime.
Bon appétit, Friends.
VIDEO: Simple Stuffed Bread Cheesy Cauliflower Edition by Bucketlist
You Need:
∞ 1/2 cup Dough (or any)
∞ 1/4 cup Cauliflower (steamed OR soaked in boiling water 12 minutes)
∞ 3 tbsp Bucketlist Cheesy Cheese Sauce
∞ 1/8 tsp Paprika
∞ 1/8 tsp Garlic
∞ 1/8 tsp Turmeric
∞ 1/8 tsp Black Pepper
∞ 1/8 tsp Salt
∞ 2 Cherry Tomatoes (chopped)
∞ optional 1 Shishito Pepper (pan roasted – minced)
